Showing posts with label Fairer Half. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Fairer Half. Show all posts

Wednesday, 18 October 2017

गुफ़्तगू

क्या कहें  क्या ना कहें,
कुछ इसी गुफ़्तगू में हैं हम|

 आपसे नहीं अपने,
लफ़्जों से ख़फ़ा हैं हम |

समझना औ समझाना ,
हमारे बस में नहीं शायद

मुहब्बत पे ज़िंदा रहें ,
यही ताक़ीद होता है |

Sunday, 24 October 2010

Should they shout "FOUL"? - or walk off saying ..who cares...

Over the period of time, in the new millenia, they are realizing that it was ( is ) wrong. Since many millenniums they have been under discretion and its intolerable for them anymore.


These are females of our society.



There are many who are raising a voice against these stereotypes and getting a good support and like minded people in both genders. Fair Enough. 



IHM says here that Girls are not inviting any one to watch them or scrutinize them by wearing western outfits or any thing for that matter because none of business of people but who ever are wearing them.

Why do they even care about it?

Why does a girl think about it when she can just go her way with out even checking who that guy is?
( Here I am not asking anyone to avoid any sort of molestation.)
 
Why does a girl think about what society will do, when its evident that society don't have enough guts to stand against a sound lady??




Anyone?


P.S. : Edited to change Title

Monday, 27 September 2010

Favor of Furrow...

Streaming like a River, was her flow
congregating energy had him synergized to bow

Every moment of flow, had been kimono
sheer bliss found igloo in his brow

Haa! it was not a long chronicle
universe had is plan some thing simple

what been assumed as a natural flow
turned out be a favor from indebted furrow...



Monday, 14 June 2010

55 Fiction#4: Perspective

He was looking in her eyes.
This evening had come after a long time.
He felt a sense of alienation. Warmth, embrace, he used to see for him earlier, was absent now.
He asked hurtfully,"what has been changed?"
She replied, catching him off guard, staring nowhere,"Perspective"

P.S. To know about 55 fiction

Wednesday, 14 April 2010

Yes, We are Handicapped - Indian Women

"Yes, We are Handicapped."

Does it sounds nice to you, being handicapped?? I hope it doesn't. (anyone willing to answer this??)

Ever since reservation made its debut in Indian System. It is gaining its size, adding to varieties and in turn more and more are falling pray for its side effects. 

Anyway I have few questions for Indian Women here:

Do you really need reservation in Indian Parliament &Assemblies?
In the current socio-political scenario, reservation has become a tool for gaining political mileage rather making things better for any one. Reservation on any basis has not been proven a effective way to tackle any sort of lacking in societies. People those were Able already have become more powerful and needy still at the same place.

Despite of reservation, other options like providing financial backing (in terms of scholarships etc.), spreading awareness (already Govts running several programs), proper execution of schemes have done miracles 

Will reservation proved to be effective?
Even if women get reservation in Parliament what is the guarantee that the new ladies coming to house wont become puppets of their male patrons? 

As a political leader from Bihar said,"Do you think, If  I ask my wife to vote in a particular way then she would do otherwise."

What can be more effective then reservation?
IF a self confident woman find her way at her own every where in power corridor or may be every where else too would it not be more pleasing?
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If rather then reserving Parliament, govt can reserve the right to live fearlessly for all in Indian?
If they can ensure logging of FIR and then a fair trial  for every crime happened against women?
If they can ensure minimum possible infant mortality rate?
If they can ensure 100% literacy rate?(though it is evident it doesn't eradicate crime against women, at least a better level of awareness will be achieved)


Would not it be more effective then reservation?  
because reservation doesn't ensure all these.

Friday, 9 April 2010

Dilapidation....

Running though her eyes, they appeared
yearning to fall and get smeared

to find some
hugging arms
or soothing heavy, husky voice to calm

earlier it was all dreamland
he was all, mentor, guide & friend

she used to run to & fro, to be a catch of him
to be a toy, in his playing palms

brutal dilapidation of the world,
she witnessed with heavy heart

but before that she got confused 
flying fist& flaring eyes; for her, all dart

why did voices reached high pitch
and harshness became the breakfast& lunch

Ohh! its raining, through eyes
Dad!! why couldn't you made it 

I missed you, very much 
and will be missing You but with pain...









Saturday, 6 March 2010

Time Travel

This post has been published by me as a part of the Blog-a-Ton 8; the eighth edition of the online marathon of Bloggers; where we decide and we write. To be part of the next edition, visit and start following Blog-a-Ton.

around 10,000 years ago
A man asked his wife to get passed in fire test, to test her holiness.


around 2000 years ago
They used to be a commodity.
(still continues in one form or other)
  

around 1500 years ago
They used to get burnt alive with dead bodies of their husbands.



800 years ago
Ministers didn't boar with a lady emperor. She had been assassinated.
No Female allowed in Power Corridors.
  

500 years ago
No right in properties of either father or husband.
(ONLY a share of husband property had been allowed that also in very few cases.It is partially in effect till date)
  

250 years ago
They had been kept in cover. No interaction with non-family-member man.
(still existing in some societies)


100 years ago
Female Genital Mutilation was a traditional practice.
(Still existing in some societies)


50 years ago
Almost 85% types of jobs were in hands of Males.(in India)
Female were not supposed to work.
(still continue in many societies)


15 years ago
Woman reservation bill, has been introduced in Parliament of India but
 NOT APPROVED TILL DATE.


today
Rape, Female Infanticides are common.
Their lives are governed by others.
Representation in governments is very low.
Women got reservation in Panchayati Raj System(India) in 2009, but original power holders are still their male patrons.



 It seems time is not traveling at all for some one called Woman

(or hardly traveled)
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Monday, 15 February 2010

Ankahi...

 

kuchh tha shayad,
mukammal nahi
bas tha kuchh
ankaha, unchhua,
deh jarjar ho chali thi usaki,
roondi ja chuki thi
anginat bar, anjaano se
jo janate the
woh janane layak na the

khilkhilahat
usaki chahu aur vyapt hai
naino mien chamak
deh vishakt hai
usaki thokar mien hai
zindagi
phir bhi na jane kyun
udaas hai


par
koi chhoo na paya
usaki rooh ko
paak..
nirmal...
pyaasi ...
aadhoori......
kab  hogi usaki peeda, damit
kab hogi woh
poori




Picture Courtesy: Gautam & Insignia


Tuesday, 8 December 2009

Elf

screams, cries, remorse
nothing is flowing out of her...


its tough...
to smile, because its best to stick with
to laugh, because its great to hide with


still she keep it up, to keep her self high
her incongruity will swallow her down


in no time, its all pulpy pale
In no time, its all being in rail


cant be her SELF, still be hersELF
its not her dilemma but her FairyTale




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